the Deer in the Headlights Moment :: Tips and Ideas for Moving Forward
jb suggested to me earlier this week that I jot down a tip for my post today. It made me think about what tips I know and, truthfully, there are not many that I would pay forward and present to an entire group of people such as the readership of a blog. Giving a tip seems, to me, a private exchange which happens as two people are working on a task and one of them realizes that they know something the other may not.
So, no tip today but here is an idea that I have been mulling over:
When you don’t know what to do, do something.
I have been telling myself this for years. It is a way to counter the catatonic spiral that can occur when I have reached an impasse. Nothing is worse, for me, than the feeling of being paralyzed by uncertainty. Even if I end up doing something entirely unrelated, still, I am moving and this keeps the river from damning up.
“Walking away” is a time honored method of readjustment for visual artists. I know this but, still, I am inclined to chip away at a problem until my brain feels hollow. To head the emptiness off, somewhere along the way, I began saying and acting upon the above.
How do you handle life’s “Deer in the headlights” moments?
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Hey Mike,
It is cool that you’d brought up mind maps. I recently began using them to arrange elements of a job into order and, from there, for creating estimates. Discovering them was a real mental change of surroundings for me.
Thanks for adding your ideas. I think they shed light on the important part faith plays in the equation. “Will I get there?” Is a far different question to ask of yourself than is “How will I get there?”
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I reside in slower, lower Delaware with my wife and our furry family. I am a carpenter and a building project manager.






B,
This poses a terrific question faced by us all-the impasse. I usually change surroundings, sit back, ponder, then organize my thoughts on paper in the form of a mind-map. It seems to help get over, under, or around the hurdles.
Often, it seems, most roadblocks can be cleared through multiple circuitous steps rather than straight lines.
Nice post, thanks!