Discipline:

  1. training to act in accordance with rules; drill: military discipline.
  2. activity, exercise, or a regimen that develops or improves a skill; training.
  3. punishment inflicted by way of correction and training.
  4. the rigor or training effect of experience, adversity, etc.
  5. behavior in accord with rules of conduct; behavior and order maintained by training and control.
  6. a set or system of rules and regulations.

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So . . . Sunday night and preparing for this week, I was dotting the t’s and crossing the i’s on Allison’s fantastic post – Troy Polamalu had just sacked Joe Flacco and then . . . , I realized, the settings on our site were whack.  It was 12:15am.

This came after a long weekend of “humping”. . . as I sometimes call it.  Sunday equaled decorating the Christmas tree; Christmas card pic – check.  Later in the day, I readied the kitchen walls for the tile guy visiting us, well . . . today.  Sunday had been a good day, until . . .

The cavalcade of bathroom vanities started, online and 500 or more, around 8PM — the wife on a mission.  One after the other, Signature Hardware, Bathroom Vanities dot com, Vanities and Only Vanities dot com, etc. and you get the point.  And . . . I had tried to pad myself against it, in advance – my wife making the call to pile the start of our master bath project onto this holiday season.  (You can find my thoughts on “piling on” >> here.)  Mind you — our kitchen project (and some exterior work) was already underway and, well . . . underdone.

. . . But that really isn’t the point of this post.

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And it has happened twice (OK, maybe thrice) now . . . since our release (in this format) in March.  And I have always blamed these issues on Internet Explorer (paired with a slow internet connection sometimes from home).  I mean — I know by now that I should NEVER, EVER make even the smallest tweak to the settings of our site while I am working in IE.  But I forgot . . . this time, at 12:14 am, this past Sunday.

Now . . . I think I should mention, I’m a pretty fiery guy.  Always have been.  And that perhaps is both my biggest asset and my biggest deficiency.  It’s true, and it feels sometimes that I am only now (at 40) learning how to properly use this power . . . harnessing it — correctly directing it at the things I need to . . . and when.  And yes, I am still studying.

When this crash happened, Sunday, I’ll admit – I wasn’t ready for it, and I went with it.  All the good work I had put in to this point (it felt) flew right out the window.  A sense of total despair set in; me equaled nothing more than simply exhausted.  Stretching myself thin at home, at work … not really doing the things I need to do for this site (like making timely manual back ups of it) . . .

. . . I made an ill-tempered and ill-fated call to our host.  I am not really sure what time it was at that point. I approved a full system restore (sight unseen).  And like that — the Magic Quotes (and maybe you€™ve seen them) were unleashed upon us.  I have yet taken the time to figure out fully what they (the Magic Quotes) are.  But I do know they were introduced by one. single. bad comment that happened to pass our usually trustworthy Spam plugin . . . .

. . . And like that, I knew . . . “Let’s Dance!” No, simply time for Christmas Vacation!

Cousin Eddie from Christmas Vacation borrowed from somewhere

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Some Parting Words:

One style says:  Etiquette, Modesty, Perseverance, Self-control, and Indomitable Spirit.

Another says:  Maximum Efficiency and Good Effect.

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While I guess I am a student of the second, I think I would prefer more a blending of the two.

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Happy Holidays from Barry and myself.  Thank you all for reading us this year, and remember >> BMoxie BMore!  jb (and b) out for a bit!